Monday, May 31, 2010

How G and i fight now and back then !!


At 27 when you fight with your man,its a little difficult to behave the same way you did at 25..seriously!


At 25 when we guys fought, i would pick up my brown teddy, stand by the window and cry.
today i switch on facebook chat and smile


At 27 i call Ma and speak to her and pretend everything is fine, since she WILL NEVER beleive that G is at fault, so no point complaining.
at 25 i called baba and told him, get my tickets done, i want to come home, tomorrow morning, first flight


At 25, when we fought, he would be the first one to make up for it and bring home a huge bouquet of roses and a bigger smile on the face, when he returned home
Today he walks in from work, takes a shower, and puts his favorite shorts, pulls out the newspaper and reads it *yes i dont exist at that point*



At 27, i got to sleep without dinner,toss and turn all night with a growling stomach and keep looking at him, damit!! he is snoring!!!
at 25, i made myself some Maggi and left some for him,slurped mine secretively in the balcony, went to bed, tossed turned and looked at him, damint!!! he is snoring!!


At 25, i used to cry and weep and cry and sulk and say "why did i marry this guy"???
Today, i growl,bang doors and think" Shiitttt, i cant go the parlour this weekend, till our fight is over" **i have too high an ego to ask him to sponsor and drop me at the parlour**


At 27, i plan to meet old friends and have a cosmopolitan and good Italian food
at 25, i stayed at home,looked through our wedding pictures and sobbed


At 25, i used to delete his msgs and his pictures from my cell phone,
Today, i go to his desk and remove all his important yellow post-its about work reminders, and pretend i know nothing


At 25, he came and hugged me when he saw me crying as i went to sleep and would say "pls dont cry baby"
now he switches on HBO and comes to sleep at 12, long after i am done with my tossing turning and sobbing


At 25, i woke up in the morning, from the previous nights fight,feeling miserable and ran to hug him and say"i love you G baby"
Today, i wake up, make some tea, pull out his Brittania crackers and hug him and say "its ok baby, i forgive you and i love you a lot "



At 25, after we got back to our "baby" and "sorry" i cooked up a nice lunch and fixed a strong Vodka
today i preach "all is well which ends with a Vodka"






71 comments:

The Bald Guy said...

*yes i dont exist at that point*

ROFLMAO! :D :D :D

Go Gopal ji, Go boy!

The Bald Guy said...

At 27 i call Ma and speak to her and pretend everything is fine, since she WILL NEVER beleive that G is at fault, so no point complaining.


ROFLMAO! :D :D :D

sulagna ™ said...

haso mat!! you are MY friend...do not laugh at HIS bright antics!!

ANWESA said...

Needless to say but I guess I'm liking this space of yours...


:)

Harini said...

At 27 i call Ma and speak to her and pretend everything is fine, since she WILL NEVER beleive that G is at fault, so no point complaining.

hahaha! Its always our fault na :P.

Daipayan Banerjee said...

25 to 27... 2 yrs...yes..we get to see the way u fight, as those are the words u've spoken... but what is more BEAUTIFUL...are the UNSPOKEN WORDS of ur love fr eachother which hs grown frm strength to strength in these 2 yrs...n wud do so eternally... :)

Scribbling Girl said...

At 27 i call Ma and speak to her and pretend everything is fine, since she WILL NEVER beleive that G is at fault, so no point complaining.
hahhahhaha
I am sure my ma will be the same too :P
But then today i turn to his maa and she is like shouting u must have said something :P...i hope even after 2 ys its same :P

Scribbling Girl said...

And i will again say touchwood :)
u both make me go so aww and so like us :)
Its best to keep fights to oneself ..best way to keep relationship great....
Thats our mantra too :)
When it comes to his mom..she is a sweetheart ..if she hears me bit sad also she is like to him u must have said somethin even if we havent fought...and he is like...gosh where is my mom :P

God bless u two always :)

oRange* said...

OMG Sulagnaaaa! You always make me smile with these posts about your marriage! And trust me, I LOVE LOVE LOVE reading them!

Wish you guys many many more years of togetherness and ..happiness :)

Ria said...

Yes, all's well indeed!! loved ur post as always. :)

Anonymous said...

Simple but very deep posts! Indeed it is all about agreeing and understanding that is called "LIFE". You write well, Sulagna.
Admirer

Queenmatrai said...

Mmm Vodka....

sulagna ™ said...

hey anonymous..thanks a tonne for your comment..i like getting comments from nice strangers..make me feel like a celebrity..hehehe...

but then, on a serious note...thank you for your words..it always gets my smile on my face

comfortablynam said...

I am so with you on all of this.. 100%.. :D

Freelancer said...

i dont wanna be 27

♦ Crazy Diamond ♦ said...

hahhahahahhaha .. you were adorable at 25..i can almost identify with the 25 year old sulagna :*


but 27 year old sula is a smartcookie! hope i manage that when i'm 30!

Raj said...

say, you could stop fighting and every time it looks like u r gonna fight u cud kiss and make up you know. adds spice to life. and i doubt any of u will be against it :P

RepublicOfChic said...

Haha..I want all this and more in my marriage :)

PS. The shoes are from VNC, they used to retail in Indiranagar and Oasis mall but they didn't survive the recession so they shut shop and left! They were the only decent shoe store we had here, now my heart bleeds for them :(

Jack said...

Sulagna,

Over the years when bond develops more and more there are some changes which are inevitable but love gets stronger as inter-dependence increases. I am now looking forward to one at 30.

Take care

Sid said...

At 25, you used to wake up and say "I Love u G baby" and in 2 years u changed it 2 "I forgive u baby"??

Where is G?? We can do some plotting ;) :P

Sayak Shome said...

This post of yours, does justice to the name of your blog.
pink n black.

Emotions and it's various forms of expression never ceases to amaze the humankind.

:)

haathi said...

i can so relate to this..its so spot on!

KParthasarathi said...

Wonderfully and humourously written.Brought smile in my face.

♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ ayu ♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ said...

aww..i learned about maturity in your post today..:P

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suruchi said...

Wow..I sooooooo loved the transition...u make me remember me at 25 and 27...
*I hope you make this like an every two year analysis ritual...:-)*

Loved you for this:
"Today, i wake up, make some tea, pull out his Brittania crackers and hug him and say "its ok baby, i forgive you and i love you a lot "

And also for the Cosmopolitan and vodka bit;-)

Just goes to show that earlier you were struggling to settle in a relation...now you have settled in to the T...:-)
The tiffs fill up the rifts...
Keep "up" at them;-)

Manjari Singh said...

hmmm ab bacchi badi ho gayi!!!

DiDo said...

Today, i go to his desk and remove all his important yellow post-its about work reminders, and pretend i know nothing


LOl revenge..!! hahhaa i like tht... m with u sulagna... go remove all his post its... i like tht WOW

Jigyasa said...

Lovely post. Or shall I say 'Exactly'

Amazing. Will be visiting your space again!

Ritz.. said...

It was wonderful to this post and equally scary ... is this how marriages turns out to be?? :)

Love
Ritz..
www.delectableflavors.blogspot.com

Sorcerer said...

hmmm...
Nice post...
That was a good post to read in ze afternoon..
LMAO!!

everything is clear like Vodka..
Ab kuch Clear Hai...

*Twoing!!!!

Thoosi Rwak!

Dreamer... said...

hilarious read...i love your posts...[:)]

SG said...

Nice one. This much change from 25 to 27. I wish you write another one how things would be at 40. Will be very interesting.

Readers Dais said...

Hi! Sulagna,

Very interesting, the smile with which u paint even the small fights.

♪You Kᴎow Me♫ said...

OMG!!

You wrote, what's exactly happening btw Me and Z..

Just that the age difference is different..

Mine is.. Back then,20 and now, 23 :-)

Take care Sulagna!

Mads... said...

lol..dat was xtremely fantastic read..jus as usual amazed by yr skill..the way u narrate..gr8 2 kno u ppl more..:))..dat was rlly wondeful...

PNA said...

Loved reading that posts, read a couple other too..brought a smile, a sigh..will be back for more

cya
Ashes

♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ ayu ♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ said...

RE: @sulagna: haha..ill think about it :p

♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ ayu ♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ said...

@sulagna: haha..ill think about it :p

Tripat "Prerna" said...

wow...beautiful work done...wat a thought provoking post :)

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HaRy!! said...

boy yu guys are nothing but fun!! ROFL!luv yu guys!

HaRy!! said...

boy yu guys are nothing but fun!! ROFL!luv yu guys!

Pesto Sauce said...

Seems I should look for someone above 27 whenever I decide to jump into fire........though it all ends well. Three cheers to Smirnoff!

Disguise said...

You inspire me to get married =P

Pavitra .... said...

Awww....such a cute post..
Hope I'm that sensible when I'm 27...or atleast 30...

**i have too high an ego to ask him to sponsor and drop me at the parlour**
Hahaha...loved it..!! :D

Its my first time here....and I'm loving it...I'll be back..!! :)

AB said...

Tee hee hee naughty girl, going and removing post-its!:D (note to the self: tip for the future)

P.S.: Do you fight as often as I do?(which is like almost every second:O)

Thousif Raza said...

you know thats called life, you live it you learn, i just hope things get better, the spark is imp.... and for alll thats worth its there..... and i'm glad for that.... i hope it stays awake in the both of you :)


take care and keep writing..........

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littlemissjuicy said...

Sulagna, your posts are SO cute! I love getting insights in this sweet marriage household, MashaAllah.

Misty Michelle said...

CUTE BLOG :)

♥ Chocolate lover ♥ said...

AWWWWW..

LOL hahahahaha XD

pRasad said...

Loved this post :)

Simple & b'fl.. & gave some insight to bachelors like me about life after marriage.. :D

I am sure even after 2 years, despite things you have mentioned love among you both is stil same if not doubled.

Sunakshi said...

Lmao..

your blog is still supa fun to read,

Missed you :)

vivek said...

Nice Post , Life has been so ...
Twist turn ..very unpredictable as we can't say what we will be in say 1 week ..

Change is the ultimate ..universal truth ..which we all innate in our lives.

Have a super Sunday ..

take care ..

penelope said...

awww.....i find it cut ... LOLLLLLLLL ..... ur blog is beautiful ... i like ** ... :) :)

Tamanna A. Shaikh said...

haha I like your honesty hon and love how so much changed in just a couple years!!

WonderEye-d said...

hello there..first time in ur blog and read some 15 posts at one go.LOVE your blog. what a beautiful life u r having. may u continue to have it FOR EVER.

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~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

:)

I wonder what it'll be like when you are 60 ... probably complete understanding !

Rishi said...

ha ha ha.. thanks for the tips.. will be helpful

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Vintage Obsession said...

I love how it ended in a vodka , i also like the evil act of removing the postit :)
does that mean we get more cranky by the year ?:)

DiDo said...

2 weeks gone... where r u sulagna.. missing ur posts :(

Kanika Bahl said...

i am going on 27 too :)
i thoroughly enjoyed my time on your blog and thanks for visiting mine...

cheers

nil said...

I used to dread getting old- for that matter I'm even dreading my 16th Birthday! :O -- > But. Now. I don't mind getting old and marrying either.
That's how awesome you and G Da are.
:)


I'm sorry for the late read!

vineetasdiary said...

hey hey hey... I just happened to reach here and wat a co-relation... I mean u spoke my heart out.. exactly the same situation!!! :)) I would say amazing articulation of a 27 yr old girl :D

Queenmatrai said...

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Raj said...

where what when?

me still waiting!!!

Haddock said...

Like they say, never go to sleep without making up.

Neha said...

I think I like your blog :)
And yes, it's always my fault too with my mom and my husband is ALWAYS the good cop!

Shaheen {The Purple Foodie} said...

I love this post! Sharing it with the OH right away.

Nostalgic said...

Guess i am a bit late.
But i loveddd your post! It tells a lot about how time flies and leaves behind so many things to be learned.
You write very well, sulagna! :)

Thamanna said...

is this really how its is when in 25 and 27 and most importantly wen u get married?
I dont wanna get married!
Great post though♥

 
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