Wednesday, January 27, 2010

When i sulk and sulk and sulk and weep

So talking of my trouble ..remember i said in my previous post ath there was slight trouble in paradise..and at such times i realise

the diamond studded ring has no glitter till he does not hold my hands as we walk

the roads get scarier as i try crossing them alone as he chooses to walk a foot back when angry

the malls look so tempting but my ego sets in betweeen and i cant ask him to buy me the red sequined cushions

an advantage of running away with his credit card and shopping, texting him to let him know this, and not getting a reply,on staying in limits

allright,i do wait to get that reply text which says "spend carefully baby"

walking out of the house in the morning, the cold cold morning, without a hug

reaching office, checking my cell million times and still no text from him saying" have a nice day baby"

talking to both sets of parents over the phone,pretending to be all normal and cheerful, behaving mature

driving silently in the car as he drives ,without paying attention to my fake act of a head ache

watching TV sitting on either ends of the couch,not really bothered about whats showing on TV but realising how incomplete the experience is

checking your credit card balance and then sending the biggets bouquet of red roses and a note hand-delivered to his office,expecting a peace out text saying "i love you baby"

in reply getting "thanks for the flowers, they are lovely" no no this is a formal text not the usual types

getting inside the blanket and waiting for his arm to come around me at night

opening your eyes in the middle of the sleep,still waiting for that arm to come around me

early morning silent tea over the newspaper, and a quiter breakfast

Staying out with the girl gang and shopping to stay away from his anger, and all the while check my phone if he has called on textd

Running back home and hugging him, crying and saying "i am sorry baby" and feel his moustache rubbing against your skin after 6 days :) :) :)

Aghhhhhhh i hate fights!!!


Disguise said...

The thing about fights is, you always make up in the cutest of ways :)

санжог said...

Well..this all says to me that you love him a lot :-)

I think you should make him read this post...he'll see what he means to you.

Queenmatrai said...

"the diamond studded ring has no glitter till he does not hold my hands as we walk"

So true and so beautiful :)

The Bald Guy said...

Awww, that's so cute! It can only come from you Sulagna, no one else!

Gopal is very lucky!

HaRy!! said...

if it was'nt for ego ...i think life wud b lot easier, as thats the main reason why relationship sets in chaos.... , but yu did mention all the outcomes after the fights !!! luvd the mail one esp!!cya around... keep blogging!

Rohit Dassani said...

Yeh sab topic aapp baar bilkul suit nahi karta....just be happy and write happy stuff... the so called sulagna stuff!! 6 days....thats a very long did u manage it ?

anyways hope everything is fine now....if not.....plzzz calm down.....put ur ego;s aside....if yes...grt,....time to blog more!!


Creativity!! said...

Lovely Fight :) :)

Chocolate Lover said...

awwww.. di
that's so cute! :)

be happy and don't fight again.

Mads... said...

heyy..dese tit-bit fights are a part of every relation..u kno vry well..its up2 you hw you cum up from them, nd u do in a luvlyy way..yr post again amazes me..yr b'ful words sound so real, nd straight away depicting yr luvv 2wards him..aww..fights can be so cute..:)

Thousif Raza said...

that was cho cho chweet..... you are just simply superb when it comes to emotions.... :)

may you 2 be happy forever :)

take care and keep writing...........

DiDo said...

u so wannaaa make me go find a guy and get married lolll... thattt was so sweeetttt ... i'm stilll going ga ga over it awww

♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ ayu ♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ said...

awww..i love makes me realize how somehow is important when fights like that exist..

isn't it wonderful if sometime you and him are fighting..? coz in taht way you'll both feel the need to be with each other and how life is incomplete without you by her/his side..

so sweet post~! (>3<)/

Anonymous said...

awwwweeee....dats so sweeeet...may be if you wouldnt have fought , these lovely post would have never come !!! Its actually good to have an occasional fight , for you would neevr realize hoe much incomplate you are without your partner :)

Quirky said...

Phewww....! I got so involved that I was like - Ohh god plz plz plz let them make up plz plz !

N 6 days!?! *Hugs* ( I know you would have got enough frm him to make you feel better but keep that frm my side ;) )

But yeaaahhhhh you guys made up!

suruchi said...

I remembered reading about the "talk of trouble" in the last post n so wanted to ask ke sab theek hain na kudiye...but glad to find u back n bouncing...:-)

Good fights are healthy..nothing as yummy n comforting as the feeling of after making up:-)

Sweetheart found u again n again on fb...there's no find me

Loooooooooooooove each twist n turn of ur imaginative descriptions:-)

oRange* said...

'walking out of the house in the morning, the cold cold morning, without a hug' - awwhh :(

my hugs wouldnt be as effective but still :P

i hate hate hate fights too! blaaaah!

Jack said...


There will be disagreements and sulking but one should control EGO and rationalise as to who was more at fault. What you can achieve with love and affection you can not with arguements.

Take care

Dipti said...

loved the moustachyy ending! :) everything you wrote was so true and TOTTTAL LOVE

sangeeta said...

Hi Sulagna ..
thanks for connecting at this point of time as it meant a lot...
you write so well n i liked the humor...will read more of your posts in future...

Sid said...

Badiya hai :)

Simply Me said... this post girl ..
esp the feigning a headache part :P
What all wives do to warrant the "much=wanted" attention and what all the husbands do to pay little or no heed :P
But Love wins in the end and i guess thats all that matters !!!

Banupriya said...

Hi Sulagna,

As so many said, the post was indeed so touching and beautiful. But I wish you and Gopal never to have any fights that lasts 6 days. Enjoy life after fight :)

Manjari Singh said...


Sorcerer said...

oh soo :)
well..I say send him ze link
let him go *sniff *sniff after reading this

nil said...

I don't know all of this,I'll have to wait till I get married.
I hateee fights,too!
And well, I agree with queen,that line was Beee--yoouuu--teee--fooooollll!
Loved it.

Glad it's [The fight] is over.

You're my babe! And tooo pretty to be sad!

Anonymous said...

You are such a romantic! It makes me feel so wrm everytime I read something like this.

Raj said...

everyone hates fights. so dont fight. as simple and as compliacted as that.
and talk of timing.
i think an overdue post has been published and is longer than expected. blah blah. :)
tk cr

ps: its a bloodsport carnage. avoid if u r in a gud mood.

Tripat "Prerna" said...

so deeply expressed feelings...
awesome..simply awesome

Dew drops said...

That was an out of heart talk...Loved the way u narrate how u feel!! Great work!!
Keep awing us!
N credit to him 2 for making u feel n write things out!!
Love ur work..U rock!!

Asif said...

And they lived happily ever after ?
Ha ha ha all is well that ends well. But really I loved the ending part of this post. Sometimes isn't it tough to show our tantrums or egos in front of something which we love too much. This post made me remember the Dhara-Jilebi comercial :)

Anurag said...

First timer here...Loved your style of a whole it has a cute girly thing to it..i.e. your blog :)

Love the way u ended it...nice :)

SG said...

Super. I have lived all my life in USA. My parents spoke Tamil. So I can speak Tamil but no read or write. So here goes my Tamil saying:

Pirindhavar koodinaal pesavum vendumoo

(If a couple who were angry and separated, when they meet again happily DO THEY HAVE TO TALK)

சக்தியின் மனம் said...

hm.. different..

mohit said...

I didn't rly comment earlier cuz I know zilch about married couple fights...

hope all's well in paradise ...if not yet, soon :D

Rhapsody said...

Aww :) Simply loved the post :)

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

And just as I was beginning to enjoy the single life, I read this.


Anyhow, please make your significant other read this. It'll work wonders :)

Pesto Sauce said...

I too hate fights, especially these ones. But then you can always make-up getting coochie-coo

D said...

Always nice to kiss and make up!

Tripat "Prerna" said...


Harini said...

awww... thats so sweet :).

Saurabh Panshikar said...

The love after a fight is lovelier!

*I just made that up!

*wonders what he should say coz hez never been in love*
*But hez been in fights*

never mind! All the best

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M@ria said...

Aww...just loved this...i know the feeling every bit...and making up is a wonderful feeling.

Rishi said...

ahh.. fights...that's y i follow "Enjoy loneliness this love infects you"

Koo said...

I'm beggining to want to get married :) :)

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